Use Sympathy Poems To Comfort the Bereaved.


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There is no specification as to when you should send out sympathy poems. When a person loses a loved one, right from that moment onwards, it is necessary to be there for them, as the emotions people go through is always overwhelming. Anytime is the best time, you never know how your poem might become handy in offering the much-needed consolation and support.

 

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Sympathy poems perform a number of roles as shown herein.
They show that we care- just by taking your time to send or read one a poem, is gesture enough that there are people around who still love them, and who are worth living for. They feel that they can always rely on your support should they ever need it. These poems use words that when read, are able to convince the mourners that they are not alone.

They also convince the bereaved that they are not the only people affected by the loss, others too would have wished for the deceased to live longer, but that they were cut short equally amounted to a loss in their expectations.

They are a way of celebrating the life of the deceased- sometimes, these sympathy poems distract those who have lost their loved ones from the sorrows and thoughts of the loss. The words will soothe their souls and twist the moods to comfy ones.
Consider the phrase, “Do not cry, she lived her life to the fullest, and I am sure she would not be happy seeing you that low.” This gives the illustration of a life fulfilled, hence no need to think less. Instead of one seeing it as a loss, they will start envisioning the moments shared with the deceased as having to be the best there ever were- they would have nothing more to expect even if they still lived. They should therefore not mourn but celebrate

 

They are an icebreaker- sometimes starting a conversation with a bereaved someone can be an uphill task. You may never know how to go about it, the wrong choice of words, and they become emotional. A poem can be all you need. Carefully selected words, with the message we wish to drive home, so you can never go wrong.
Plus with the receipt of the poem, someone is likely to respond with a thank you note, from which you can start talking to them to find out how they are doing, thereafter you can know if there is anything more you can do to help them cope.

They help people to heal- sympathy poems not only talk concentrate on the feelings brought about by death, but they also suggest the need for a person to move on. They give the impression of the need to soldier on for the sake of others who still need their presence.
By virtue of them talking about the deceased in a celebratory way, people tend to come out of the mourning cocoon and start to see death as just one of the natural processes that we all will go through, so there is a need to give it many thoughts. You should get up and enjoy each of the remaining moments to the fullest before your time comes.

In the world we live in, a number of situations will call for our sympathy, for instance,
• When a sibling passes on.
• When a pet passes on.
• When a colleague passes on.
• When any member of one’s family passes on.
• When one’s friend passes on.
The pain associated with death is usually very huge, that all we can do, at least, to the mourners, is to show that we care, if not being physically there. Sympathy poems have proven to be a nice way of showing how much we care. They can be used together with the following-

With sympathy cards- you can always write these poems inside the cards. What’s more, the cards can be kept for any time reference whenever one feels low.
With sympathy flowers- here, you send them together with the flowers, which have a way of brightening up even the dullest of spirits.
With gifts- you can perhaps buy a gift of something loved by the person in question and send it along with the sympathy poem as a way of lifting up their spirits.
Who uses them?
These sympathy poems can be used by all and sundry. They can be dedicated to or read by children, adults, or even the elderly, for the loss of a loved one.

Types of sympathy poems.
There are however religious sympathy poems, Christian based, with God at the center. They are a way of manifesting the presence of God in all circumstances, and as the greatest planner too. Everything works according to His desires, so is the death of a loved one. They usually carry such weight owing to the associated spirituality.
There are non-religious sympathy poems that can be used by people of all faiths, ranging from Hindus to Muslims to Pagans. The beauty of such general poems is the fact that they can be easily personalized to befit a person’s desires.

There are long and short sympathy poems. They both carry the same messages of comfort and consolation. The choice with reference to length largely depends on a person’s preference, and where the poem will be used for some cases. For example, with a card, you are most likely going to have limited space for writing up a very long poem, thereby subjecting you to a short one.
There are so many sympathy poems out there that the process of finding one suitable one can be tricky. By the click of a mouse, you will simply get millions of them. We at the Holy Bookshop have lifted this burden off your shoulders by reviewing them and providing a list of the most effective ones.
We feel it is only human enough to offer support to anyone going through the loss of a loved one, and that is our little contribution.

Michael Grover

Following the death of my Mother, I decided to make this website. I found it difficult at the time to express the correct words to say at the service. However, I stumbled across an immediate download (available here) that enabled me to find truly memorable words.

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